1. Spend about 20 minutes a day or more practicing this in front of a mirror. The look you want in your eyes could best be described as “intense”. Think lustful thoughts and imagine you are looking at someone who drives you wild. Try to be passionate. Once energy is surging through your body, you want to transmit this only through your eyes. Your face should remain deadpan. Use visualization techniques if it helps. As you get better at this, you’ll be able to turn it on. You’ll be able to make your eyes go from “dead” to “very much alive” in a few seconds.

2. Combine purposefully boring talk with intense eye contact. Because you’re sending out mixed signals and being indirect, the other person will lose themselves in your gaze and it doesn’t give them a chance to analyse what’s going on.

3. You still have to go out and meet people.  However, your new found expressiveness will work very well in nightclubs, where non-verbal communication is the order of the day.

4. You should have an alert, attentive look.  Holding eye contact for a second longer than normal can say everything.

5. Make sure that you are not having too much eye contact or they will get freaked out and will run off.  So it’s just a small crush like eye contact.

6. Eyes are usually one of the most seductive parts of your body.  If you have nice eyebrows and beautiful eyes, try this: When talking to a guy, subtly raise one eyebrow, look deep into his eyes, but continue listening, eventually he will get lost in the conversation, but you need to continue listening to the conversation: listing is essential!

About the Author: Maria Mirabela
As an old-fashioned romantic, I believe in unconditional love. I believe that finding love is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. As an executive dating service and a personal matchmaker, I am proud to boast a 95% success rate! Think of me not just your matchmaker but as your friend, colleague and life coach.