Here’s some perspective from the opposite sex:

From a Woman’s Perspective:

•  He seemed confident and didn’t call me several times before the date.

•  He showed up with flowers or wine.

•  He didn’t talk negatively of his ex.

•  He was happy with his life and job.

•  He seemed interested in my life and didn’t just talk about himself.

•  He had enthusiasm and energy for being there and meeting me.

•  He had a great voice and was friendly on the phone.

•  Together we had good conversation and he has interesting things to talk about.

•  He offered to pay the bill, the baby-sitter or the valet.

•  He had style and great taste in clothes.

From a Man’s Perspective:

• She had a great smile.

• She unlocked the door on my side after she got in the car.

•  A sense of humour–it showed me she was on the same wave-length mentally and that she was fun.

•  She called and said thank you the next day, or sent a text message.

•  She held a nice conversation.

•  She was full of vibrancy and energy but she wasn’t wired.

•  After several nice dates she made me dinner.