Mirabela Executive Dating, Match Maker, Relationship, Counseling

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How can you turn on the charm?

In a world where we're programmed to constantly look for the next best thing, how do you stand out and be memorable to any woman you come into contact with? Well .... we have some tips that could help.

  1. Be present - women love when a man makes her feel seen and heard, don't just say yes or no in response to her statements, actually ask her questions and delve deeper into what she's telling you.

  2. Confidence not arrogance - embrace charismatic charm, which essentially means you need to be comfortable being your real self. When you come across as being relaxed in being yourself it will encourage those around you to feel relaxed when interacting with you.

  3. Give & receive compliments - being able to give compliments without coming across as too forward takes real skill, but when you start to compliment women more on their personality traits than their looks, you'll go a long way and you won't come across as a creep. Being able to accept compliments in a confident way just by thanking the person also makes you seem comfortable in your own skin which exudes confidence.

  4. Be imperfect - Part of being a charming man is not being afraid to be your true self, even if that means that you make a mistake or slip up in conversations every now and again. When a woman sees that you’re comfortable to be your true self, it’s very charming and appealing because she can relate to your imperfections.

  5. Dress the part - Women notice a man who is effortlessly stylish. Go back to basics and stick with block coloured shirts and t-shirts. Style doesn't have to come across as trying hard and once you've mastered effortless style this can be used in everyday life, not just dating.